I have no butt, no boobs , Nothing NADA!!!! The only thing we should consider an asset is out brain and personality. So many times in pop culture we see men and women criticize a woman because she has no visual "attributes" which are seen as attractive. This could be being to big, being to skinny, having a vuluptuious physique. Why do we have to say one is better than the other. An example of this is Meghan Trainors All about the Bass "Yeah, my momma she told me don't worry about your size She says, boys they like a little more booty to hold at night" Its ludicrous of the idea that what men want should affect the way we perceive our weight. Why do we have to look to a man for validation why can't we like our bodies for them being the way they are skinny or curvy or whatever your body shape is.What if he didn't like anything to hold at night? Growing up in the African American Culture the curvy body is whats looked up to and as a young girl I wanted the butt and the boobs. So many times I would compare myself to others and feel incompetent because I wasn't paid attention due to my lack of "attributes". BUT NOW I'm fine with my body the way it is. As long as your happy with your body it shouldn't matter what anyone else things.We shouldn't tear each other down as woman we should lift each other up, we should embrace every thing about ourselves and our bodies
Love,
Woman who loves her body
Love,
Woman who loves her body